Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Life, Love and Regret.


This will be a short post. So much is going on right now. Involving this 3 words - life, love and regret.

For me, life is simple. Love too. There's nothing wrong with these two if there were to combine. As long as we live our life out, love will be anywhere and everywhere near us.

Speaking of love, if you've found one, you're blessed. If not, just wait and keep faith going on. We know that God works in mysterious way. There must be someone for each everyone of us (as people always put it). When the time comes, do appreciate what we have. And treasure everything. Because we never know how long our dreams come true will last. And there's no point to regret or question why and what went wrong. The damaged is done.

Regret by the way is not the word to be sad of. Rather it's the word that reminds us not to live a regret life. People come and go in our life. For that, we must be prepared all the time. Or else you'll be in emotional breakdown. Just like me. We never know when they gonna drop the bombs, right? We might be caught off-guard.

p/s: I'm not the best person for you to seek advice. Nor to put on hope. I really hope that I can help you Mummy. I want to share your burden, and I know it's impossible. Nothings in the world can be compared to what you've been going through right now. But, I just want you to know, we'll always be on your side despite whatever. I love you.

34 comments:

MariaFaizal said...

Live Life To The Fullest dik...

And, lovely family photo you have there...

Cheers!

CAHAYA said...

Thanks. Raya lama dah tu. 2 tahun lepas kot. :)

Live Life to the Fullest, so they say. I just wonder what will happen next. :(

Cheers Sis!

tchersally said...

Luv d way u put it in words..i couldnt agree more!! whatever ur mummy is going through right now, she's so lucky 2 have u as a daughter!! i can sense u r her strong pillar in life..keep it up..

CAHAYA said...

I may be not the best daughter in the world, but I love my family so much. I love my mum so much. I just hope everything will back to normal. But I guess it's so much to ask for.

Sherita Aziz said...

uhm.... for me, i always leave things to fate... eventually, love will come knocking on the door...

ps: nice family foto.. is that lukman or lokman yg ur sis kept on talking about non stop? he he he!

CAHAYA said...

Fate is a big word Ms Sherita. And I don't think I can apply the same method. Huhu.

p/s: Luqman. Dulu kecil je. Skang dah sama besar ngan kitorang. Haha.

m e E n said...

u know what.

one think i've learned;
fate doesn't decide everything,
people get to choose.

Love will find the way.

Ad Rifza said...

Sometimes what we do and what happend in our life is not what we plan for..All of it is about our fate..Just pray for it..
Sometimes what we want we cant get it but sometimes what we don want comes in our life..Life is so complicated when we think of it..So just let it go.. lifes must goes on and times will show us something..Insyallah..

CAHAYA said...

meen,

Yes. Agreed! People have choices, and sometimes they have to admit that they choose wrongly. 'Fate' just an excuse towards their bad behavior.

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Ad Rifza,

Life is supposed to be simple, human always make it difficult and complicated when it comes to judgment. Of course we can't always get what we want, but at least the 'try' part was done before we let go things.

Yes, life must goes on no matter what. We just leave to Allah to show us the way.

Suka Bebel said...

you're right.watever happened, bersabar aja lah k?

Inah said...

being a shoulder to cry on for ur mum is the best thing now :)

pray hard..may you have the best thing in ur future ahead :)

ohh..hi cahaya!! :)

CAHAYA said...

SukaBebel,

Another big word. SABAR! Huhu. I guess that's the best I can do pun. :(

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Inah,

Yep! That's the least I can do right now. :) Doakan.

hehe. Hi Inah! :)

@xiM said...

God alwqays work in mysterious way..have faith in HIM ok..

tc.

CAHAYA said...

Yep! Always. :) Thanks. Take care too Axim.

Monkey D Luffy said...

jangan menyesal atas kehidupan kita... kalau nak menyesal... banyak benda nak disesalkan ni :)

Nik Muhammad Hafiz said...

lots have been said here..choices..fate and so on and so forth...what about nak dengan tak nak? i think that is the key point to everything even before me make our choices...decide if u wanna do it or not doing it..then only u can move up to choosing which is which...well..i dont know what is really going on but..i think this rule apply to all...

CAHAYA said...

Monkey.D.Luffy,

Betol! Menyesal kemudian tidak berguna. Kan kan kan? :) Patut dah fikir awal2 implikasi segala.

CAHAYA said...

Nik,

Yep! The rule seems fit to any issue. Pucuk pangkalnya, mahu atau tidak kan? Of we decide to go on, so we have to be ready for all the consequences. And the list goes on.

About which is which, let the time decide for the best. I guess we all know what best for us when the time comes.

CAHAYA said...

Of = If

*typos. lol.

Nik Muhammad Hafiz said...

yup..totally... ;)

Redbloodsnow said...

pandai ler cahaya wat penulisan neh ek.penusunan ayat very da mabeles..hehehe

neway...be strong ea in facing all the obstacles of life :)

CAHAYA said...

Nik,

:) Take care. And thanks so much.

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RedBlood,

Pandai ke? Thanks. Main taram je, macam entry lepas geram. Susunan pun agak terabur plus grammar yang tunggang langgang. Tapi, biarlah. Tgh geram kan.

Thanks. Will try to be strong no matter what. Hope for the best!

Dj Epoi said...

Walaweeeeeeeeeiii

Hebat ah......Lu ....

Tak Prasan Gua blom add Lu lagik....

Now!!! Dah....heheehe

cik siti penguin said...

yeah. LIVE. LAUGH. LEARN.

=]

*btw, nice post ;]

CAHAYA said...

Dj Epoi,

Erk. Yeh? Thanks. lol.

p/s: Masih tak faham part walaweee tu. :(

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Cik Siti Penguin,

Yeah! Supposed. But, we don't always get what we want right.

Gosh! I love to laugh. That's explain the high cheek-bone. lol. **matilah sgt perasan. Haha.

p/s: Thanks. **blush

izan said...

cahaya,

keluarga bahagia minda sihat dan ceria. syukur semuanya ada - asam garam tu.

kita akan kesunyian jika ketiadaan orang-orang yang disayang. ibu dan bapa adalah orang yang paling hampir buat cahaya untuk ketika ini.

CAHAYA said...

Kak Izan,

Yang pasti, bukan Cahaya yang dalam masalah. Tapi secara tak langsung terbabit sama. Family kan? Cincang mati2an pun xkan putus.

iNsOmNiAc said...

and whoever owns both love & family, consider yourself lucky, very2 lucky... betul tak, cahaya?

iNsOmNiAc said...

and whoever owns both love & family, consider yourself lucky, very2 lucky... betul tak, cahaya?

Faisal Admar said...

Too much love kinda confusing and stressful too. You involve with this one, that one and everyone.

The best is... you enjoy your single life when you still got the chance... or enjoy your love life while it last.

Love is in the air... always!

Nik Muhammad Hafiz said...

aight :)

CAHAYA said...

insomniac,

Maybe. Or maybe not. Depends. Mine? No comment. :(

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Faisal,

Too much of love is TOO MUCH. Hard to cope, hard to be loyal and hard to be fair. So don't be anything.

Yes, I love single. But I'm not sure about my mum.

Wahidah said...

Hope ur mum get the strenght to overcome all the obstacles...

Life Live To The Fullest

CAHAYA said...

Yeah! Hopefully. Thanks Wahidah.