Tuesday, March 9, 2010

"Oh no, you did it again."

from deviant

Everyone who has common sense knew that we're responsible to whatever consequences from our right or wrongdoings. No one will let loose from this. We have to face it in order to deal with it. But sometimes, they just ignored it. They believe whatever they did will not have impact of their life, and as well as others.

I don't know how people can live up their life by not taking any ownership of their mistakes. Seriously, I just don't know. Maybe they have special blood and veins where they can hide those feelings and just move on to screw with others life.

Every decision we make, whether it's easy or difficult one, it will ends up effecting others in some way or another. I always hope I make the right decision every time, and it has positive effect on me or people around me. But we're human being. And human makes mistakes. Even every part of our body wants it to be right , we can't always make the right decision, right? Urgh, it's just so complicated to explain this in words. One thing I know for sure, whenever I didn't make the right decision, I know I have to deal with the consequences. I own it. It has made me a better person.

How people deal with the consequences of their actions will shows their true characters. Some people show the dark side we never thought existed, and others show a strong side that allows them to survive those consequences. Face it. Own it. Take responsibility for it.

Note to Z: I know you'll read this. I just hope you own it this time. Enough cover-ups. I know you think world revolves around you (just you alone). Just thought you should know, world revolves around others too.

13 comments:

Jard The Great said...

chantek la template neh.. suka sgt!

Jard The Great said...

we are not alone in this world.. eheehehe...

CAHAYA said...

Jard Tu lah. Bukan kita sorang je duduk dlm dunia. Kena fikir jugak apa kesan perbuatan kita pada orang lain. Tak tahu mcm mana orang itu boleh tidur malam bila dia owe so much to orang lain.

Thanks! Me like it too.

HEMY said...

yep..when people faces the consequences of what they did, only then we know what kind of person he/she is

CAHAYA said...

HEMY - Kan? Only then we know them very well. Kalau tak, semuanya tu tipu daya atau lakonan semata. Kadang2 hanya cakap kosong.

DrSam said...

the problem with some, they think they are invincible and invisible.

CAHAYA said...

DrSam - True. Tak sampai hati nak blame orang lain atas kesalahan diri sendiri. Lagi satu, kenapa lah nak blame orang lain pulak. Adil ke?

p/s: Dr Sam, bila nak set makan2?

bluecrystaldude said...

I really like the picture above. It really connected with the post ;)

People are sometimes to blind to see of what they had done. But instead, more eager to watch others mistakes. The problem with making decision is that you never know whether it's the correct decision to be done. But in the end, we all need to face the consequences. Life isn't fair :)

CAHAYA said...

BCD - Yes. That's why we get the chance to think it over before we make any decision. Listed all pros and cons, and hopefully whatever decision we make after that will lead to good things.

True. Life isn't fair. But it's good! :)

Skullsplitter said...

i don't know if i can agree with what you just wrote coz for me facing our mistake, it cant be easy and it's depends with the situation of mistakes we do. sometimes people ignoring their mistake to others for a better solution, better for a both side. thats only my opinion, more details, i just cant explain it by words. you have to feel it, you'll know. ;) my 2cents.

out of topic : I have that special blood. ;)

skullsplitter

CAHAYA said...

Skully - Maybe there's a certain explanation why some people so hard to admit their own mistakes. For me, admitting mistakes is the best solution ever, so you'll never make a same mistakes twice. Maybe I don't quite feelin' it. Hmm.

out of topic counter-comment: you're that special one. congrats! haha.

zara said...

I took the wheelie at the same spot but of course, my pics are not that awesome enuff. :p

Anyway, mistake is part of the decision. Whether you decide it right or wrong, the mistake will always comes in second. It might be a bad mistake or it might be a good mistake, which of course depends on your decision.

Admission is another thing. Admitting your mistake over bad decision is depending on the consequences thereafter. Not all consequences arriving from bad decision can be regarded as a mistake. It may be a bad decision to oneself, but a blessing for another. It may be a mistake to oneself, but a good decision to another. It all depends on the acceptance of the mistake that either lead from the bad decision or the good decision. And in either way, there will always be the consequences. It's either you want to learn from it or repeating it again. That's it.

;-)

CAHAYA said...

Zara - Yep. Either good or bad, there'll always consequences. Everyone makes mistakes. The different is whether they repeat the same mistake twice or learn from it. :)