Monday, March 23, 2009

Scandal or Affair?

Taken from GoogleImage

Both words carry different meanings and definitions. Both are dark words for some individuals. But a 'lottery' for certain. I'm not judging nor condoning. I just wonder if is there any LOVE involve, or just purely FUN (win-win situation maybe. Err, ops!).

Do you really wanna do this?
Yes. Only if we both play by the rules.
Rules?
Yes, rules. You know right?
What?
I'm married. And I have all saudara mara menakan segala. So anything that from you that will lead to them is a NO-NO for me.
Meaning? I know for sure you're married. What's with 'me lead them to you'?
Don't call me, I will call you. Same goes to SMS. No picture together. And mine alone in your hand phone or laptop.
Alone pun tak boleh?
How can a married man picture end-up in a girl's hand phone? Please, I see you everyday. What's more to ask?
Erk!

Scandal or Affair.

Either way, I don't like it. How about you?

40 comments:

Inah said...

are you in this game?

Jard The Great said...

OMG.... adehh...

love makes us blind.. apsal tak amik sbg isteri kedua je.. hmmm...

Sherita Aziz said...

entahlaaa.. rasa mcm sama jer... he he he!

CAHAYA said...

Inah,

Not intend to be in one at this time being. Later? I don't think so. But we never know right?

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Jard,

Isteri kedua? Sama je. Either way, I don't like it. And I don't think 'they' can be fair.

CAHAYA said...

SheritaAziz,

Sama eh? Sama kot. Erk!

cahaya bulan said...

i dun like it either... we still have a right to choose kan..:P we r not desperate.. kalau dah ditakdirkan bersendiri.. itu semua dah di TAKDIR kan...:) - Hanya Sekaradar Pandangan...

CAHAYA said...

Betul. Setuju sangat. Tak terlalu desperate utk perkara seperti ini. Kadang2 perkara macam ini buat kita buka mata luas2 yang sememangnya tiada harapan utk bersama.

So why bother stay?

iNsOmNiAc said...

kalau i, scandal i cakap mcm tu, i lempangkan jer... ;) hehehe...
if u wanna play this kinda game, you set the rules, the other party shud be the one to obey ur rules.
this is not a guy-bashing statement or what but honestly guys like this shud be treated like dirt ;p

ixora said...

amboi2 kak...balik je terus berskandal2 n3 nih..hehehe...

skandal=bahasa keras sket..
affair=bahasa lembut bertapis..

erk..tp benda yg sama kan..? huhu..

CAHAYA said...

Insomniac,

Haha. Yeah! It seems like he played this before. With the rules and all. :) Whatever happen, it's not for me to obey any of his terms.

If he wanna play, better with my rules. Haha.

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Ixora,

Kasar atau lembut, macam takde beza je. Yang penting, dua2 tak bagus. :)

HEMY said...

I ok je...ahahahaha!!!

en_me said...

hmmmm..

MariaFaizal said...

dik,
akak belum habis study this entry.Abang nak pakai lappey.I'll come back :)

MariaFaizal said...

Dangerous, dangerous 'game' to play.

All players are at the losing end.

Faisal Admar said...

Drama.

Spa Q eh? LOL.

The good move should be: Leave that old jerk. There are plenty of young rich guys around.

CAHAYA said...

HEMY,

Wah! Nakal btol. :P

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en_me,

hmmmm gak!

CAHAYA said...

Sis Maria,

Yep! Why even care this kind of relationship if we end up losing. No point! Bazir je. :)

Thanks!

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FaisalAdmar,

Drama maybe. SpaQ? I hope I can be Norish Karman or any watak jahat in that sequel. Haha.

Old jerk? How do you know his old? And sometimes it's not about money. :P

Monkey D Luffy said...

WAJIB dielakkan... sebabnya ia menuju kearah SEKS TANPA IKATAN... percayalah

cik siti penguin said...

I don't like it either. Yeah those two are a tad different. Affair is if you have a relationship with a married person, scandal doesn't matter as long as it is 'forbidden'. [at least, I think. hehe]

*btw, you a fan of James Patterson huh? I just read one of his books. Loved it! =]

CAHAYA said...

Monkey.D.luffy,

Kamu seperti berpengalaman ttg isu ini. :P

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Cik.Siti.Penguin,

I guess mine will be the 2nd one. But I'm not intent to prolong this. :(

**Which book? I'm a fan of not so serial-horror series. He also have his soft side. :P

amirul said...

Salam Cahaya,
Drama petikan mana nih? Berlaku dlm diri Cahaya? Wonder...

CAHAYA said...

Salam Amirul,

Part of my life story and a conversation between me and a person just recently. :) I hope you're not judging.

TiNiE said...

nope. i really hate such game like this. simpang malaikat 44....

CAHAYA said...

Sumer orang benci kot. Termasuk Cahaya.

al-hussaini said...

bahaya..bahaya...
walaupun ada taktik atau strategi yang kemas, tapi terkantoi juga akhirnya...

suezensuzanna said...

wah.........skandal..no komen

haritz said...

Saya tak tau nak cakap camner.Ia adalah pengalaman ngeri bercinta ngan bini org (sbb dia tak berterus terang dah kawin)Lucky saya tau cepat. Kalau tak, Allah yang tau. Pada awalnya dia nampak mcm anak dara, kecil molek. Jadi kita kaum lelaki ni mesti try tackel punya. Yang pelik melawan ni. Dah 3 bulan kawan baru tau dia dah kawin. Itu pun sbb dia dah terlalu over (sorry saya ada etika dan agama). Cek2 rupanya gersang. Selalu kena tinggal suami.She's no 2. So no 2 selalu kena tinggal lakan. Saya tanya apa dia cari kat saya. Spontan sex!! Meremang bulu roma. So apa yang u cari kat org tua tu. Jaminan hidup katanya.ENtahlah. All end now.

ps:Pada kaum suami selalu `jenguk2' isteri tu. It's true story cahaya.

CAHAYA said...

al-hussaini,

Wah, berteknik2 dan taktik segala. Bak kata pepatah, sepandai2 tupai melompat, akhirnya jatuh ke tanah jua.

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suezensuzanna,

Haha. Skandal no komen. Affair? Ada komen tak?

CAHAYA said...

Haritz,

Thanks for sharing. Kes 'humban-menghumban' ni selalu dengar. Tapi dalam buku atau majalah je la. Tak tahu plak ada di dunia nyata.

Bagus juga Haritz tahu awal yer. Jangan pandang luaran. Mesti pelik tiba2 di'layan' macam tu kan?

Story macam ini boleh beri iktibar buat Cahaya dan yg lain2 jugak. :) Thanks again.

landaklaut said...

skandal = no string attach
affair = maybe, maybe... maybe. hmm

mungkin terbalik. but both pun tak bagus.

Nem0 o0h Nem0 said...

R u in dis game?
dlm hal ni,org ke 3 yg sll di salahkan,tp gal ni bila da syg seseorg tu sometime x dulik dia laki org atau ape,
tp lelaki lak cam ***..

ishh!
jgn main ngn api kalo takut terbakar..

CAHAYA said...

landaklaut,

Err, maybe you're right. I don't really know the definition/meaning for sure for those two. But, as far that I believe it, just like what you've told.

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Nemo,

Maybe, try not to. Memang orang ke3 dlm apa2 relationship yang selalu dipersalahkan walaupun sebenarnya orang ke2 yang ayat tak hengat kan?

Tak main api, tak takut jugak. :P

Ju-Jue On the Line said...

are u having an affair with someone's husband?no wonder...

CAHAYA said...

No wonder what?!!! Hish Ju ni ada2 je. :P

Suka Bebel said...

scandal? setia lah pada yang satu.hehe

CAHAYA said...

Scandal pun 1 je. lol. :P

landaklaut said...

to tell u the truth, i've been in this situation before. and being the 3rd person, sebenarnya lebih banyak makan hati.. sbb jadi second choice kan. bila dia bosan, baru cari kita. so i end up blah camtu je sbb tak kemana pun. but it's really up to the person how much they want to sacrifice, and is it really worth it.

CAHAYA said...

Yep! Sometimes I felt the same too. Thanks for sharing. If it really worth it, only there's sacrifice to be made. Or else, just suka2 and don't expect anything out from the relationship. That's all.

Wahidah said...

well tk de gurl yg sanggup jd org ketiga esp with suami org..tp byk gk faktor yg memungkinkan gurl ni bercinta ngan suami org..kiter hanya erancang..mmg la bole dielakkan..tp kalo dh sekali terjebak ssh jugak..esp kalo bercinta ngan suami org yg tgh bermasalah dlm umah tanggaa nyaaa

CAHAYA said...

Setuju sangat! Tiada siapa yang nak jadi 'spare part' or 3rd person kan. Kadang2 sakit hati juga bila kita kenal dengan orang, dah rapat, baru dpt tahu. Alasan mereka, kita tak tanya. Ada ke patut?

**Kalau yg ada masalah rumahtangga tu, bahaya! Kalau boleh elak, elakkan terus.